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Mr Wrong

I Might Be Wrong

Mr Wrong

First story: A friend of mine in USA (as an exercise in political empathy) put up a facebook status asking people to try to list one positive reason why someone might vote for the presidential candidate they do NOT support. The majority could not do it. “Can’t think of a single one!” “I honestly cannot think of one reason that anyone could support the other person.” The first attempt at a reason was “[The person I won’t vote for] is a child of God and thus is capable of love and change.” To which the immediate response was: “Gods gonna have to work real hard on that one.”

Second story: In a facebook group I belong to, someone wrote:

Why can’t Christians agree to disagree? No one here can claim God like status to be infallible, which means we all will acknowledge that we will get things wrong sometimes…right others…and be neither right nor wrong at other times.

Within the conservative movement there are disagreements, within the progressive movement there are disagreement which means of course there are going to be lots of disagreements between the conservative and progressive position.

How about we approach this from the other side of the coin. Do you, as an individual Christian, claim infallibility, or are you fallible? If you claim you are fallible then please share with the group things you might be wrong in, rather than all the talk about what you are certain of.

Again, in the comments, people mostly couldn’t do it. They would list off how God would correct their errors, and how the Bible is God’s inerrant Word, and so on. And if anyone did acknowlege what they might be wrong about, those people were quickly attacked for heresy, doubt, or even being a Christian at all.

I’ve read of experiments where, in intense intra-church disagreement, there have been attempts to get people of Position A to argue for the opposite (Position B) and vice versa. And they cannot do it. Even having just listened to or read the opposing argument, they cannot articulate it themselves. They have not “heard” it.

Yes, I know there will be exceptions, but I regularly see it outside of that experiment – people unable to argue forcefully for a regularly-held position that differs from their own.

I watch with astonishment, in the current lead-up to the USA Presidential vote, as I see normally-sensible, insightful people totally blinded to the weaknesses of their particular candidate. It is as if acknowledging, even to themselves, even one real weakness in their hero will be the undoing of them.

And the same applies beyond political beliefs to religious beliefs, to ethical beliefs; beliefs generally, in fact. Acknowledging that the opposite position has merit, and where it has merit, appears to be beyond most. Acknowledging that you and I might be wrong about our understanding of God, the Bible, the universe, reality – even acknowledging that we might be wrong about some detail(s) of these – seems to be too threatening to contemplate for many/most.

[At the highpoint of theism-antitheism acrimony, I rejoiced in reading Francis Collins’ The Language of God: A Scientist Presents Evidence for Belief. Here was a man (leader of the Human Genome Project) who would, chapter by chapter, present his own position – and then have the humility to present issues and problems with his position, and reasonable arguments for the opposite view.]

Instead, we regularly demonise those who disagree with us [in the case of USA, about half of the country, whichever side you are on; and even about half of your “own side”!] Everything is turned into us-them; black-white. There is no credit given to the others’ intelligence, compassion, passion, scholarship, etc. In the case of disputes within Christianity, people argue with such certainty and destructive rancour, often turning those they disagree with into straw-men rather than engaging with humility, politeness, humanity, and openness to what people are actually saying within the complexity of our uncertain existence, that any non-Christian observing the belligerence cannot but be repelled. The medium IS the message.

But I might be wrong.

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7 thoughts on “I Might Be Wrong”

  1. Thank you, Bosco, for your wise words. I very much like the picture of Mr Wrong – and I think the fact that he is smiling is significant!

  2. Chris Sullivan

    The scriptures record that differences of opinion were very much a part of the early Church, as they were of 1st Century Hebrew faith.

    Respect for difference is very deeply grounded in tradition.


  3. I like this.

    I’ve been complaining for a while, too, about the illusion of “sides”, where we assume that someone who agrees with us about our favorite issue must be good, and must agree with us about everything else, and someone who disagrees with us must be bad, and their other beliefs must be wrong.

  4. From “One Minute Wisdom” (1989), by Anthony de Mello, S.J.

    To a visitor who described himself as a seeker after Truth the Master said, “If what you seek is Truth, there is one thing you must have above all else.”

    “I know. An overwhelming passion for it.”

    “No. An unremitting readiness to admit you may be wrong.”

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